Okay I love someone and they love me to but the thing that is holding me back is that my bestest friend really dosen't like him and says that I shoud get over him and that I should NEVER see him again and many other things I don't know what to do I really love him and he really love me What should I do?★☆★☆
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Man, this sounds like a plot from a teen drama show.
Well...
On one hand, you'll be with the love of your life but might lose your best friend.
On the other, you could listen to your friend and not go out with your love.
These hard decisions have always been pains.
What I suggest is simple. Just 3 words:
"Follow your heart."
Don't listen to your brain. Your brain is what you think. Your heart makes many decisions for you. Many of those decisions involve love-life choices.
Just follow your heart.
And remember... Hakuna Matata
First you should talk to your best friend ask her what she does not like with your guy sometimes if you like a person we intend to be blind on the bad things they have that might be harmful to us if you think you can accept his weaknesses or imperfection then talk to your friend tell her that you really like this guy and that you want to give it a try and being a friend of you she should let you if that will make you happy and be there for you always.
You can't ignore love! Go with your heart if you love him and he loves you then go with it! Let it work its self out and after say about a fought night you should tell him! Maybe tell others that you like someone and keep them guessing until you are ready to tell everyone. It's really your choice what you decide on but if you ever need anymore help just answer one of my questions and I'll answer you one as well. I hope this advice was helpful. Thanks crisisoverhere24368
Hiya, I love helping, anyways,
So let's see.... Your best friend doesn't like him.
C'mon, she is probably jealous or something,
Listen to your heart, not your friends, you love him,
Stick with that. She probably loves him, and is jealous that
You are by him/ ex spectra, however, just listen to your heart and gut instinct.
It's happend to me too. Hope this helped! -Rhea
Hey friend,your case is totally complicated. In my opinion ,you should love your best friend. Because your befrnd always want you to remain happy.[if she is a good friend]. Byfrnds always comes and goes.but your besfrnd nevr leavs u. Its very hard to get a real frnd. But still i say its your life your options...choose it with your heart. Bst of luck
You should really respect your best friend, ask her why she doesn't like him. If she can't give you a sensible reason than she is either jealous of your newly found love and isn't a true best friend. Or she's in love with your man. ( whereas if the second option is true than your friendship is doomed). If she has a sensible reason like for example your guy cheated, then an example answer you could give her would be something like this: I know that you are trying to look out for me and do what's best for me but it's not fair of you to put me in a corner from my love and my bestfriend. If you are my best friend than you will understand that I want to date this guy and I will tell him how I feel. I know you don't like it but please try to feel happy for me. If it doesn't go well pester me about it later" something along those lines