I love my girl friend more than my life and I want to marry her but she does not like my family.and?

well you would think if she really cared about you that she would try and get along with them and show some respect i think it would be different if it was her parents and you love and don't have any problems with yours how come she doesn't like your parents any reason i think i would have a hard time with that one but it could be really awkward to keep going through that kinda reject if your parents don't have any problem with her it sounds one sided i wouldn't be able to put up with that behavior so it sounds like she is trying to come between you and your parents i would stop that right now