My boyfriend and I have been dating almost 6 months. Sure u might think psh they don't know what love is. We do, we connect so perfectly it's amazing, but ever since my best friend and I went out to eat someone asked if we were in love of course my friend said a jokey answer but it got me thinking....so now I have mixed feelings between both guys even if I did go for my best friend he still has a girlfriend that he says he is in love with.....what do I do?
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this is a very tricky question but if you think about it it becomes simple when you start to think about it. he became your bestfriend for a reason but if you were to chose him you would lose that frindship that you an him had but the choice is all up to you and were your heart leads you
I love...................……............................................................this web site so I hear you have problems with my race boys so you need to get him to like you a lot so get him and say if you could chose beaten a big star or a small star what would it be and your the big star if he looks like he enjoyed the conversation then he likes you and be brave and give him a sticky note that says are you interested in me ok
It is the same as my situation
relationships can be a bit tricky. but i dated my best friend once and it ruined our friendship when we broke up. plus if your best friend has a girl friend you should wait to see if they are even going to last. if you love your boyfriend now,, try harder to see if you can love him more then what you say you do. donrt do anything stupid and ruin things. and remember he could possibly feel the same about you.. oh and do not what so ever tell your boyfriend. i told one of my ex's that ii really liked this other guy but i loved him. and it just caused a huge fight. but all i really liked was that the other guy treated me better when the boyfriend cared more about himself... just be wise.. i know what youre feeling
I think I've been in a similar situation but on the receiving end. The issue is that u can hurt a lot of people if u choose to go and hook up with ur best friend and even worse if he doesn't feel the same about u. So first think if it's worth the risk. If it's not worth the risk and u don't want these feelings u can use a psychological trick where u wear an elastic band and pin it at urself every time u see him or with pictures. These why ur brain will convey him as pain and ur feelings should go. Good luck with ur decision but do what u want.
Thank you I think I'm going to wait it out to see what I truly want