According to the Bible,having sex or ''making love'' as he calls it, to someone you are not married to is called fornication which is a sin to God. I came from a christain family which does not support me being with him . I have decided not to have sex again with my boyfriend to obey the bible. He believes it is not a sin,as long as we love each other and says he wants to get married to me. He also say i don't love him anymore if i don't have sex with him. Should i continue, making love to him until marriage or wait till that time as the bible says.
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If he really loves u.he should respect what your decision is.. It's a sin.. If he doesn't believe it,and refuses...I think you deserve someone better..Some(maybe) men only wants to have sex... to pleasure themselves,It is only called love making if you two are already married ( this is only my opinion ^_^)
think of this,if u have sex with him and u get pregnant,...then because you 2 are not married yet,he may refuse that the child is his right? then you'll have to abort the baby or blame the baby or you'll end up in a miserable life...think of the possibilities... Life is short,even a single mistake can ruin your whole existence... now u do not want that right?
So,maybe it's either you convince him u should no longer have sex or find another man who will love you,respect u and make u feel you're woth the wait and time.. ^_^
I'm only 16,... think of what's the right thing to do...remember,to love others,you need to learn to love yourself...if you love yourself,you'll leave some love and respect to yourself,both body and soul