Okay, so there's this girl I met almost 3 years ago, and we got to be like best friends. We hanged out a lot and everything, and a year later I fell in love with her. So for like a year i secretly liked her, and then one of my friends told me that she liked me back! but i didn't want him to know i liked her because if you tell him a secret everyone knows by tomorrow. I didn't think she knew I knew she liked me, so i wanted to wait for the right time to tell her how i felt. But I guess that friend went back and told her that i didn't care when he told me, and she got over me. Right now, a year later from the whole thing, she really likes this really cool person and she doesn't know is a complete jerk. She thinks he's really sweet but doesn't know him at all, but i didn't have the heart to tell her he's not who she thinks he is. she also knows that i like her. she told me how she knew me for a while about a month ago when we were emailing. She also told me a while ago that I was like a brother to her...so how could she like me if it's brotherly love for her? So I know that i'm really nothing more than a friend to her but i just loved her for so long and I don't know how to get over her. I know that there probably isn't a way for us at this point, but if there's anyone out there who has any advice for me you have No Idea how much I'd love to her it. It's also a little weird between us from when she told me that she knew i liked her, but i hate things being awkward, and i really want my best friend back. If any of you have advice about that too I'd really really appreciate it.
I love my best friend but she?
Added 3+ months ago:
The title was supposed to be "I love my best friend but she likes someone else and knows i like her" i guess i ran out of characters or something, lol. but anyways, if anyone views this question please help me!!!
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I kno u dont think a complete stranger (like me) would know this but, i kno girls (because i am one, and iv been in the EXACT same situation) DEEP DOWN SHE STILL LIKES YOU!!! (As more than friend) but i also have some advice if u want ur best friend back. Keep in mind that if u do wut im about to tell u to do, u will most likely NEVER get to b with her as boyfriend & girlfriend. Just tell her u DO NOT like her at all anymore (and make it seem convincing). Also it would help if u told her about a new crush. (If u have ever moved just tell her about a girl from ur old skool as a crush).
I asure u that will work, & AFTER A LITTLE WHILE things wont b awkward anymore. NOW PLEASE HELP MEEEEE! I have a question of my own, just search for AJ girl.
can you send me the link to your question? i can't find it
well I would think that by now you should tell her the truth and never let things go unsaid also don't let any body say how you feel because they really only say what they want and you can explain those thoughts to her if you want a chance don't keep them secret it won't get you anywhere
you really think so?? okay, i might try that. thanks for your help!! and i'll check out your question