I like this guy at work I am fat, he is not interested.dont want to give up, what to do?

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Dosent matter if youre fat or not just tell him how you feel, i belive thhat youre inner feelings are the Specticles of love

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i meant "*that" sorry ;P

I some what agree just don't go to him and be like "ohhhh I like you a lot." It never works. It makes you seem weird and some guys take it as your desperate. Well for me it does and the other person is right, It don't matter if your fat. Everyone of GODs creations is beautiful. DON'T EVER put your self down.

I put on weight recently, due to a stress/water retention problem.. I went out on a date and the guy told me that I was fat and that he didnt like that sort of thing. It shouldnt matter what weight a female is at. Her personality and the other attractive qualities should out weigh the fat on her body. Some men are mean, and conceited. Believe it or not some men don't like women that have extra pounds. We all need to face reality, all women aren't supermodels, and men shouldn't be expecting everyone to meet that standard. It doesnt matter to me if a guy has some extra baggage,, Point being though, tell him how you feel if you havent already, and if he is still uninterested in what you have to offer, forget about it. He isnt worth your time. But if you're what you say fat and ur over weight considder going out for walks and exersize at the gym to boost your self-esteem. Hope this helps u a little.

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I know you have feeling for this guy but never feel lest of a woman because of your size. Sure you would like to be smaller that just being human. If he is that narrow minded it's his loss and some else gain. there are thousands of men who love and want a full figure women. Just hang in there he will find you.

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If he don't like you because of your weight he is not worth you time hun I'm sure u are beautifull inside and out u should consentrate on a real man who will love u for who u are not how u look

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just tell the truth.....
you will not feel regret if u tell the truth....
be honest....
just follow your heart say....
be brave......
n try to lose weight.....

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go on a diet or work out or something.

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I'll tell you, guys can be dicks, trust me, im a guy. but if a guy doesnt want to date you because of your weight, then you shouldnt even like him. find a better guy for you, theres always someone out there for everyone

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With The End Of The World probably being in March 2012, I'd say this is the least of your worrys.

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if you really like the guy you will make ways to be closed with him. it doesn't matter if you are fat you can make a diet to be like by him.

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If he's not into you that's ok there are plenty of men who adore women with a few extra pounds, I'm one of the millions.

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never mind if he doesn't like you, there is still more better people that will like you for yourself:)

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just go talk to him and slowly let him know how you feel. but be confident

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