... turns out really brassy but I have been using purple shampoo well. Anyway it has been about a month now and my hair is like a darker dirty brown how can I get to titanium gray without killing my hair any more than it already is on top of it being very fine and a little shorter than the middle of my back
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You really really need to learn the business. "Dye" means you add color, and of course that means the result is darker.
Removing color is called "bleach" and that is a more difficult thing to do because bleaching involves a lot more chemistry. Bleach oxidizes things. "Oxidize" means the same as "burn" so you need to know a few things. The best thing is to hire a professional hair dresser who knows what works. Either that or study chemistry for a while.