I knew he had a past when we met. He has children. He says he honestly believed they were divorced. they havent been together for about 15 yrs. We have a 3 yr old daughter and planned to get married this month. Then found out that he is stil;l married to ex. OBVIOUSLY this infuriates me and makes me feel so hurt that i cant even explain. Well turns out she is the one who backed out yrs ago and hasnt done her part and turned in her papers. Now she is taking her sweet ass time and wont return our calls. we just want to move on with this. Is there way to have the courts speed this up?
I have been with my fiance for 5 yrs. Found out he is not legally divorced..HELP?
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We do not have lawyers, we can not afford one. We live in differet states. There is no way to make anyone understand fully the situation, but we just need help. I feel like if this goes on for too long it could ruin my relationship..
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I don't know what country you live in and hence don't know the law of the land there but where I live divorce is significantly easier after such a long separation. I believe it can almost be done unilaterally. I know you don't have the funds to employ a solicitor to handle the divorce but it may be worth paying for just 30 minutes of a solicitor's time to advise you about your options.