We attended training together. We used to be close friends.
Then he told me that I was a bigshot who always seeked for attention,
who told things that are not true and he said he doesnt become friends
with those people and told me he hopes to be truthful to myself .
He talks to everyone except me, even my boss knows about it
but doesn't do anything because he is friendly to everyone at
the office and close to my boss. Its distracting because he
seeks attention of everyone else except me. What do to?
I have been staying at this company for 6 months. This person has started to ignore me a month ago?
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- 3+ months ago by kurtsky
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- close, person, friend, company, attention, together, always, month, friends
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Well when I respond to an answer, I am very straight forward and I dont sugar coat things. But Im also very fair and I try to see both sidesof a situation. With ur situation it could be a couple of different things. It could be that this person sees u as compitetion. Maybe he feels threatend by u some how. It could be work related or it could be something else. Or maybe this person simply sees u as an easy target. Some people only feel good about themselves when they are making others miserable. One question I have only u can answer is is there any truth to what this person is saying? Im not saying there is, Im just asking u if u feel as if there may be a reason to why this person is acting this way but not sure or uncomfortable sharing it? The only reason why I bring it up is because sometimes we first have to acknowledge a situation for what it is before we can find a way to fix it. Just something to consider. But here's the bottom line. Not everyone is going to like u. Not everyone is going to have good intentions. U cant let other people determine and dictate who u are and what value u hold. If someone choses to not speak with u, thats their problem, not urs. Dont let them rob u of what u can offer by making u feel less important because he doesnt come talk to u and get ur opinion. Be a good person no matter how u are treated because in the end it will matter. Its hard to believe at times but good does triumphs. Be true to urself. Be the best person u can be and when in doubt do something selfless for someone else. Its the best kind of therapy when dealing with a personal conflict. Good luck!