Hi im 29 years old, latin woman dating a 29 year old german man in the military. We have been together for 6 years, got married 4 years ago because of the circumstances. I love him to dead and he says he does too. The problem is i dont feel any of this love that he talks about. I see no real commitment, am i wasting my time with him? I mean he is no romantic or creative or serious about what really matters. He knows i need a proof of his love, like taking the relationship to the next level (engagement ring, wedding, plans to move together, anything really) BUT nothing comes from him other than words and promises. Im honestly tired of waiting. I have been so good to him but how much longer should i not allow myself to find someone that gives me what i need????
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First of all my I say he's a fool and don't know it . Now that I got that off my chest, it is clear to me as the love in your heart, that this man is dragging his leg on the issue of you guys getting married. I'm not latin but i have notice over the years when a latin woman falls for you they fall hard. I bet he wasn't slow when you were giving him all of your sweet loving. All my life I have wanted a plain good heart latin woman , This guy needs to love you as you are one day you're not gonna be there. Some guy like me is gonna get you and be happy the rest of his life.