I have been divorced 10 years. I've recently run into my ex and while I have no desire to get back?

well you have to ask your self a question is it worth it for the sex he might think hes back into a relationship agian with you if you can just have the sex you would be doing okay but it might be just something you really want to think about it sex might work if its just for that purpose you have to weigh it out

Well try to remember why you broke up. Why you got divorce. That what I have to do when I run into my ex wife. . There still some feelings still there between us. But it me ThAt can't allow myself to go back. She broke my heart. She left me . Yet all through the divorce she say I still love you just I can't live with you right now. She had issues all thru our marriage. The problem was she flirt openly in front of me with every guy she met. Hug them sit on there laps. Sit next to them. I always felt if she does that while I'm around how far will she go with them when I'm not around. So i push for her to stop that. Guess she couldn't do she left. All the guys she was with while gone was okay with her doing that and she had many make friends with benefits. I always got to remember that. . I don't see being friends with benefits with any ex as a good thing. But that just me.

While you were remembering how great the sex was were you also remembering the reasons for the divorce? You'd be better off masturbating while thinking about how great the sex was.