... started building a strong freindship then became so compatiable and imtimate like our connection is so strong!!! my family even loves him on friday was our anniversary and i offered to treat him to dinner but some how the devil rained on my parade because my card got declined i was so embarssed and hurt and he was even upset which doesnt makes sense now his being so distance towards me telling me its not going work he needs to move on all of sudden he has a change of heart for something that happen one time in my mind i wanna give him his space and see what occurs within the next few weeks because my heart wont allow me to let him go i invested too much time and trust into to just give it up
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you know he may want you to stay in touch with him make yourself his friend if nothing more because you probably got that why end everything when hes someone you got to know he has to at least want you for companionship maybe more but i suggest you ask him again to dinner maybe brunch on Sunday as his friend this time and go from there.
Ooh... that seems stressful.
If this is young love, there's an obvious reason for why he's so distant. He feels... sad. He knows that he's growing up and he's not ready. He misses the days where he didn't have a girlfriend and when he was... free. I'm not saying he doesn't love you, because from what I'm hearing, he certainly does. He just needs space. I don't really know how to put it in words, he might be scared. Being in a relationship reminds people that they're growing up and that they're not a kid anymore which leads to thoughts about being responsible for yourself and stuff. He might be worried about the responsibility part.
He might love you so much that he's afraid to lose you. He's afraid that you two won't make it one day and that it's not worth it to try if all he's going to do is lose you...
My boyfriend gets mad and distant from me once in a while but he always ends it by saying he's sorry and that he's only worried that one day we won't make it and that he'll lose me. Maybe that's it...
It could also be family problems or he's just getting a mood swing. To me it sounds like you two are deeply in love and you have to know that all relationships come with fights and arguments and almost always they end with, "I'm sorry, I love you." :)
Good luck!