i have a son who is 8 that i have never seen before. Me & his mother had separated when she fall pregnant due to her leaving a note on our bed when i was at work that had stated leaving me and moving back to where she came from which is a different state to me. i will be honest and not lie back then i was young and stupid for not chasing after her. months went on and i found a girl who later became my partner who is now the mother to my 2 year old daughter and we are engaged. Over the 8 years i had tried to contact the mother of my son (who i never meet) but no response. Is it to late to be a part of my son’s life and is it bad to wanting to reach out to him 8 years later?
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Its never too late to want to see your child, I am sure he wants to know you as well. There are ways to go about getting in contact w/ the mother thru an attorney, Health & Human Resources, etc. Although you are no longer together does not mean that she should decide if you get to see him. I would not have waited so long to be in his life, 8 years is a long time. Its never too late ..Good Luck