I have a gf, but Im in love with my female best friend... what do I do?

Question

I need some major help or advice. Been dating this girl for 18months. Love her. Buuuut, she does a lot of stuff to annoy me lately. Whines about her bills, doesnt cook, doesnt clean, etc. Now, this other girl I have known for 4 years. Always been there for each other. I have fallen for her before. But we have never dated. Lately I have fallen for her again. I feel like crap keeping something from my gf, Im not like that. What do I do?  Stick it out with the girl im with and try to fix things? Or, move on with life, and go for the girl I have always been in love with and have always wanted to end up with.?

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I think talk tour gf first then tell her about what you feel and at least give your relationship a last shot and tell her that id does not work you need to separate ways and then move on with your life and go after this girl that you really like. It is more nice 
that when you are starting to a new one it starting on a clean cloth

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you know if there is any chance that the girl your truly in love with why put your self through this so to speak  and see if things will truly work out with the girl you love this way you can be happy instead of making you mad at the time this other girl annoys you

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if you stay with the girl your with now and work this stuff out you as a person would you be happy you have to weigh this out as far as you are in love with someone else you should be honest with yourself and her

I have a gf, but Im in love with my female best friend... what do I do?

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