The other guy i just knew about 2 months. But i am madly in love with him bcs he fills the emptiness that my bf didnt fill. My bf n i long distance relationship. Meanwhile tgis other guy , we're always hang out together. Hmm what should i do?
I have a 4 years long term relationship boyfriend. I love him. But then theres the other guy?
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- 3+ months ago by misfits2201
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there is a saying Out of sight, out of mind, in my language literally translated " far from eyes far from heart",
long distance relationships they are great fun and with minor or no responsibilities, if you guys haven't done much in 4 years like move in together or had friends together, went places, had pets met parents, you probably never will .
No hard feelings but you will both find something else more satisfactory and closer. Don't feel bad about breaking it up for something better and closer. I bet he wants to break up too just doesn't want to hurt you.
If you are not in love with your old boyfriend and you just love him, you probably love him and appreciate him as a friend and a human more then a boyfriend.
You should talk like grownups and face that in case you aren't going to start dating properly soon there is no point in dating at all, (lets face it we all have physical needs and 4 years is long even for a priest).
i didn't break up my long distance because i went to him and we moved in together. otherwise we would be pulling each other by the nose and eventually go our own ways.
either enjoy your new boyfriend and break up with old one or move in with the old one and move onto the next step of the relationship.
now if you are under 18 I would recommend to do the first thing and enjoy your life and don't waste it on false promises and hope :)
cheers :)
yes that is tricky, if this new one is just playing to get you in the bed its not good.
cheating is bad both ways. its his problem ha he didn't satisfy all your needs but its also your responsibility to not to cheat XD (i don't know how to explain, you are not bad because of it but i also don't support cheating)
being comfortable with your old boyfriend is he best thing i have with mine, but then again we are living on a sheep farm so i don't have to look pretty every day. but when we go out for diner or i'm doing something in the town i dress nicely and put make up on but for myself not for him, because men don't really care about it.
i know its all happy and exciting with your new boyfriend but ask yourself: who would you like to be father of your children, who do you see yourself growing old with? Is "fun and exciting" worth leaving "safe and comfortable" which possibly can be "fun and exciting" once you move in together?
Yeah that does sound tricky. Enjoy your new boyfriend or break up and with the old one or get back together with the old one but stay with the new one or break up with the old one and get together with new one does this make sense to you?
I agree.. why not take some day leave from college or wait till next holiday then go find your old BF. Then you 2 can catch up on things that were missed. Your old bf might missed you too but wasn't able to come visit you?
My old bf had met my parents and i had met his. Im 22 and he's 25 and we are planning to get married soon but after these 4 years, the excitement has faded. When we are on a date, i feel like im so used to him ,im so comfortable with him to the stage that i dont care if i look ugly that day or messy. But with my new bf, i feel like an adrenaline rush whenever im with him. I cheated and yes im a terrible person but what can i do my old bf is so far away. We cant live together bcs of my college and his workplace factor. Hm. somehow i am scared to take risk with this new bf. Im scared that he's just playing with me but god i just cant get enough of him. Im beginning to forget my old bf and that makes me feel like i am the worst person on the planet :(