My mum died on the 20 of november this year and since then I have hated my life. My dad calles me ugly and rude names and so does my brother. And im having trouble at school to, it seems like everyone hates me and is ditching me. I cant tell any thing to anyone becuase no one cares. I really want my mum back, I also feel sorry becuase I was so rude to my mum becuase she was a achoholic and on the last two weeks of her life she said random stuff and kept us all awake all night so on the night she died we all got annoyed at her and did not realise she wanted help and we just ignored her. I dont know what to do..
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Don't say that. God loves you and I'm sure your family does, too. You shouldn't wish to die, there's so many good things you'll miss out on and so many people who would miss you. Life is good, God is great. Just believe and things will get better. God makes things better. He only gives you what you can deal with, He obviously believes that you are strong enough to deal with this. May God bless you, and I hope things get better.
Hi ,there,first ,sorry about your lost.
but what happened is already done,there is no way you can get your mom back.
you need to live with that regrets,that's life,and its hard,but its hard to everybody .
and about yourself,i just want say,if you don't love yourself,nobody will.
And for the ones who do you wrong or who you think do you wrong ,screw them.just start hard,and go get a hobby or something that keep yourself busy and you can get some positive energy .
YOU NEED A HUG!! Life is about ups and downs and when we are in a slum we feel everything is going wrong and never going to get better. we also hold a lot of guilt. Just know that it will get better. it always does, but it takes time... sometimes lots. I have never lost a parent, but I've been through crazy amounts of hard times in my life and sometimes wondered why me or if it will ever end.... and it does. So don't worry things can only go up from here. I don't know your age, but if your fam is calling you names you should consider talking to other family members about it... perhaps move with one. You don't need that!!
Don't feel guilty that you did not attend to your mum when she needed help, you just lost trust that's all. I'm sure your family loves you and if you are tired of these problems there is always SOMEONE you can talk to, like a friend or maybe even a Teacher, you may not feel like a Teacher would help you much but a teacher could give you advice to solve your problem. Why don't you talk to your Dad, he may not care when you first start telling him but he might start paying attention to you after a while of conversation. If he doesn't start raising your voice, if it STILL doesn't make him pay attention, star YELLING at the top of your lungs how you will feel, he is bound to pay attention then, and take care of your Brother by telling him he is nothing but a bully and he better stop calling you names and bully you. But remember, there is always SOMEONE out there that cares about you, it's not like there's no one at all, and if you know that someone, they can help you out.
Hope this helped you,
kitkat321
I know lots of children that has that same story too. After all, this reminds me of the Sims 3: Child Abuse.
A good YouTube video suddenly hit me. Here's what happened:
A little girl loses her father (by drowning) and what's left is her sister and her mom. Her mom abuses her because of the death. A few days later, the little girl ran away. She alerted the police that she was being abused and then the police went to their house and arrested her mom (I don't know about her sister) and a few days later, the little girl was sent to a new home. She felt good about it.
There is nothing wrong with you. You just know terrible people. I know what it's like to feel like nobody listens, like nobody understands. I made the mistake of never speaking, of bottling everything in. It launched me intoa depression. But I also found out that therapy does nothing but send things deep inside, where they build up and return latter with a vengeance. What helped me was helping others through their times of hardship, and there times of need. It could be anything from holding doors open, to listening to people and giving them advice, to getting in a fight with a bully to keep him/her from hurting someone. That is what kept me from ending it all. You should give it a shot. Trust me, there is nothing more satisfying. Also, if you need a confidence booster, search the question "What is the meaning of life" on this site and read my answer. I hope this helps.
Listin to me I lost my mamaw 3 years ago and she was the only person I had I had such a hard time with leting her go I still cry over her and I always ask God y he took her from me but I know God needed her for something and I know u might not understand that and I don't understand it but God has a plan for everyone and everything !!!! God loves u and so does your dad and brother they just might have a hard time with showing u that they love u and they might be haveing a hard time with this to but they are just not telling u about it !!!! I got taken from my mom and dad and right now my real mom is a prison for a very very long time and my did is dateing my real moms sister!!! I am haveing a hard life too but still u should always love life and be thankful for what u do have because u could have it worse !!!! And even though I don't know you or never seen u I know for a fact that u are very pretty and u are not fat !!!! I hope this helps u because I really took along time to do this and it is a school night and I am up am 12:00 wrighting this for u !!!!! God loves you and always will no matter what !!!!!!! Have a good life and love your life !!!! Tell your dAd how u feel and maybe he want be so mean to u !!!!! Well I gtg to bed so good night !!!!!!! Weight back soon !!!! :) :)
Yeah that's real smart screw them!!