I had a fight with my gf after a guy made a joke on fb about having sex with her?

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The guy is in his mid 40's and is a friend of a friend and a bit of a sleaze it's not the first time he's made a joke like this about my gf she's 25 and I'm 30 I said I don't find someone makes jokes about having sex with my gf funny and she had a go at me and said its only a joke I'm being over the time am I right or wrong

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The most important thing is trust.once both of u  have trust in each other ignore whatever pple say."let them say"

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tbh dude, if she says it was just a joke, if yall trustworthy. yall can work it out smoothly, it proves nothing arguing or fighting. just move on frm it

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well, if some chick was making sex jokes towards my man on FB, Id be pissed.
Theres no reason for it and for her not to care is a direct rejection of you personal feelings (whether they are justified or not they are your feelings) and she should take them into consideration.
Maybe you shouls get someone to post jokes about sex with you on FB and see how she likes it?

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You know, if I was your g/f I'd be proud of you unless my morals were less honorable. Some dude makes sex jokes about my lady, I'd become a neanderthal. If your woman thinks its just a joke, I'd be really confused. I'm not a violent man but I take care of my family and my honor.

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i understand what you feel  but dont take it too seriously and ask your girlfriend if it is true if not dont be bothered about it or it might affect your relationship

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No i think that u were right to be a bit uncomfortable about anybody saying things like that about your girl. I myself had a similar experience with my girl some of my friends would say some dirty things about her and she though it was funny so what i did was i told her  that i found it irritating and that she would not like it if someone else was doing the same to me

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allright mate my name is jordan i have had the same situation but im a married man i was on fb last saturday night while my wife was out with her mates at kisstory and i saw some bloke wrote on her wall this is wat he said (hey babez that shag last night was amazing is ur husband out tonight cause im near ur house and would love to come over and have a second round lost of love john) now when i saw that i was pissed off so when i went to pick her and her mates up she was u ok and we had a little row and it turns out it was all 1 big joke so dont worry about it mate just forget about it

I had a fight with my gf after a guy made a joke on fb about having sex with her?

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