Now he went to rehab for a month, and i'm not sure if he still has feelings for me. It was a family place.. It was a very intense 3 month relationship, and now it's confusing as hell because I don't know how to bring up if he's still in love with me or just wait it out till he brings it up?? he's only stayed in the marriage for his son and i've seen him with the wife there is absolutley NO chemistry... Should I just ask him straight up are we going to continue or wait around and wonder? since we work together can't really bring it up there. And he's acting like he's still confused, he went to rehab for unknown reason.. he was drinking but not at a problem usage. I have a feeling he wants me but is afraid to crush his son's heart by leaving his mom and is utterly confused on what to do.
I fell in love with a unhappily married coworker who asked me to marry him on numerous occasions?
- Posted:
- 3+ months ago by whatthell
- Topics:
- love, relationship
Responses (1)
Give him a little time to adjust to normal life and if you still feel the need to ask in a month or so go ahead. You may even have your answer before that based his actions alone.
Oh, listen to your gut not your heart - your gut is usually right! :0)
Good luck to you!
That's great advice, thank you helen! Yes, i've gone through too many emotions to count.. my heart broke a few times but my gut keeps telling to stick in there for some reason!
Well... it's been about 3 months now and today he told me thinks about me every day, in front of 2 other co-workers and was completley serious and straightfaced when he said it. He hasn't asked to see me outside of work at all, but he constantly flirts and when his wife is brought up he gets mad and quiet and changes the subject.. I need to find a way to tell him how i feel but not sure how, considering it's work and he's my boss. Any suggestions?
I would not ..he is still in avoidance and doesn't want to deal with the wife situation. When he can address his marital situation without doing the shuffle and talk straight then maybe you should open yourself up. At this point it looks like he wants want he wants on his terms..he keep dangling a carrot in front of your nose just enough to keep you interested but doesn't ever let you take a bite. Not fair to you. Don't waste your time PLEASE.
Thank you! I've only worked with him for 3 nights, he's gone from completly distant to being friendly again even flirting a little. So you think I should not ask him anything about it, and just get on with my life? I'm completly in love with him and it's killing me not knowing either way.. he can't really forget about the whole relationship in month can he?