I feel like im just being used and it doesnt feel good like we aren't in a eelationship but I really like her she went out with one of my friends and now I think that shes using me as a way to friend me so that my other friend would get jealous ive liked her longer then my other friend which they broke up btw and, but anyways I realy like her she seems like an awesome girl but it feels as if im just a puppet on a string she has alot of things incommon with me and it just driving me insane but she just now started talking to me but I feel uncomfortable because she dated my friend what do I do?
I feel used what can I do?
- Posted:
- 3+ months ago by anonymous...
- Topics:
- friend, feel, crush, highschool crush
Answers (2)
well you can tell your friend whats going on and get his reaction to the information you would share with that person it would keep your head up but feeling this way should help you know what you should do in a uncomfortable situation i sure wouldn't keep it from him he could have his own reasons and hurtful situation because of it
I can understand your situation...I have felt this way before.
I think your situation is such that it needs to b made simplified now...And to do that ... First of all you must know that this girl thinks of you as a friend or more than that . If she does than now is the time to tell your friend whom she dated before ..This is the second step...Coz your friend have a history with the same girl and as he is your good friend he must b comfortable with you dating her and for that you must express how you feel about her so that you can proceed.
In case, if she doesn't feel the same way you do... than my friend no need to feel used anymore...You must move forward...Help people only as much as they deserve it will give you much more Satisfaction..
You will definitely get the love of your life...May b now or later but you will..Just never leave hope n be the way you are
I hope I was of some help to you :)