We are friends more than 5 years.
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It's a big step, it might be worth trying to brooch the subject slowly, perhaps start by asking how he feels about you and whether he sees you as more than friends, then asking if he has any feelings for you directly and then asking how strong those feelings are.
It would be easy to feel foolish in front of him if he tells you "No." if you ask him outright, this way you both can feel secure and less vulnerable until he has the confidence to tell you how he feels or you can back off if he doesn't have feelings for you.
Hope this helps.
I think would be safer if you go and say you love him. But I suggest you first try to signal you would like to get out from the frienship zone and observe the way he behaves. Normally, if he has something for you, based on your signals, he will come and tell you he wants more. And a piece of advice for you, not necesarilly for this situation, but for the future: generally men hate this 'Do you love me?' 'Do you still love me' re-assurance questions women ask.
Sometime I want to tell him I love him but I want to hear from him first
well, then, as said you will need to 'suggest' him that you will like to go further. do not necessarily look for words - words are so easy to be said - look for his behaviour
If he act ask he love me,then watch I do next?
he will drive the things on, you do not need to do anything. when he wants to kiss you allow it and ... deal done :)
I hope so.thank u for ur good advide.
I can not wait...and I was waiting he admire to me for so long.or maybe I am the one who think about it ??am I crazy??