I feel so down in myself. I'm just about to sit my leaving certificate exams if this has anything to do with it. I have no real friends, the girls in my year constantly find ways to put me down! I have a fantastic boyfriend tho and he's the only great thing in my life right now. However the girls are always swooning over him especially the head of the clique that are at me. Any advice on getting over this, I just feel horrible all of the time. Thanks
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I think you should just ignore them. Don't let them put you down. They are stupid and don't have anything good to do. You are smarter than that and you shouldn't care what they say about you. You are yourself and this is your life not theirs. Don't listen to what they stay. And don't just stand there if you do. You should throw back comebacks and stand up for yourself. And don't let them put you down. If you show them that you are weak then they will still keep on doing it. You be strong and show them that you aren't scare of them and you don't give a heck what they say about you. Okay? You are better than that and they are just some stupid girls who just are so stupid. So just show them you are brave and not weak. And don't feel horrible. They're probably just jealous of you because you are better than them. You go gurl!:) And I'm pretty sure you can go and find some real friends that will want your friendship and treat you good.
Show them you're the girl they're missing.
Show them you're stronger than they are. You are better than being stupid and an idiot. If they call you a slut, then just stand up to yourself about those stupid girls. Walk away and find friends that will be your friends and that will help you with your conflicts with others. I think you'll be great at that, no doubt about that. Tell them to stop being mean and being jerks, and being stupid because those guys are being stupid. Not you. You've got to stand up to yourself, don't let them bully you. Serves your right to stand up to them smileurbeautiful12. That is 100% true. Stand up to yourself and do not back down. You be strong and show them that you're not scared of them and you don't give what the heck of them of what they say. Having passion is what you need in life, not despair, nor scaredness, nor nothing like that. Some kids feel that way because they want to show the weak that they're stronger than us. The weak can do more than just hide, they can stand up to each other, and have passion. You're better than them, so show them. You can stop this bullying at school and at least tell your parents about it, or friends. Never be afraid to stand up to them. And plus, your friends are there for you when you need it most. I'M always there for you no matter what or where.
Keep moving forward and you'll be stronger than they are. Good luck and hope this helps a little. :)
Stay away from them?
No matter where you stand queenb, we will all be there for you. Even if it means sacrificing friends. You need to show the weak that you're strong, and have faith. No matter who you are, I'll always be there for you girl, no doubt.
Keep being cool, and nice, and have passion. Find ways to stop bullying.
She's right, dont let them get you down, they are just jealous. When girls tease you, its cause you stand out, most people think that they get teased cause they are nobodies, but its cause you are awesome and dont know it that they tease you.