Recently I've figured out I was gender fluid and it fits perfectly. I kinda accept myself but I don't want to be because I go to a camp where boys and girls are separated and I have been going there for so long and would kill myself by not going (not because of camp). I would be fine with being with the girls but some people at the camp are very religious and I just don't know what to do. Should I just go and not tell anyone and just be a tomboy? HELPPPP!!!
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I completely get where you're coming from. Being gender fluid/gender flux is super difficult and your gender expression can offer be lost if you try tomfit in with rose around you. In my opinion, I think the best thing to do just be yourself. Everywhere you go you are going to encounter people who dont accept you and its horrid but we have to all grin and bear it. In addition, not all religious people are unaccepting. I, for example, am Christian and I'm probably one of the most accepting people you will ever meet. You dont have to tell anyone but hiding it might not be the way to go. I'm not saying run outside painted with a rainbow screaming "GENDER FLUID, EVERYONE! I'M GENDER FLUID!" But you dont need to hide. However, if you dont accept yourself or are still trying to come to terms with it, then maybe it is a better idea to not come out to anyone outright, maybe say "I think I might be" instead of "I am", that way you can come to terms with your gender before everyone else has to.
I hope I've been some help.
Much love and best of luck,
Neutral AJ