I don't know what to do with my life?

Question

I can't get over a ex of 4 years ago and I'm already moved out with my new bf.. I haven't spoken to my ex lately..and I do love my bf I just always think of my ex.. Hate this feeling. I'm here just thinking is this seriously it .. Like okay I already moved out with my bf now what we get married and have kids ..ahh so overwhelming to think of

Added 3+ months ago:

I keep having the urge to text my ex and that sounds horrible but I can't help it..

Answer

Your boyfriend would be MAD! if he finds out that all you do is think of your ex. Especially if you text him or talk to him. Look don't do it. If you talk to him again or whatever. Something will happen between you both. If you are not with him is for a reason. And if you really love your boyfriend then you wouldn't be thinking of your ex. 

Move on that's what you need to do! Because you haven't! 

You are the only one that have the answer to your question.

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Then you need to be alone it's not fair on your new man. If you get in contact with ex you will regret. If it didn't work once it won't work again. Be happy with the man you're with and if you can't, be strong and be alone til you know what it is you do want.

I don't know what to do with my life?

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