I'm 13 and I have never had a boyfriend. No one has ever been interested in me, and I guess Ive never really liked anyone. Until now. I think I'm in love with a boy. I see all of his flaws as something that makes him different and perfect, even though no one else seems to think the same. And I'm pretty sure he doesn't feel the same about me. I cry myself to sleep most nights because I know I'm probably going to be forever alone. I never thought I was that ugly… or weird. I'm not exactly miss popularity, but I do have a pretty good personality. I try to be nice to him every chance I get but he still ignores me. And I hate that. I want to at least be his friend. I just don't know what to do.
I don't know what to do, help?
- Posted:
- 3+ months ago by Spiritwal...
- Topics:
- love, boyfriend, ives, help, relationships
Details:
Responses (3)
Your not going to be forever alone. Stop crying yourself to sleep every night. Just give it some time. Don't get in such a big rush. Just walk up to him and start talking to him sometime. Or if y'all have a facebook start messaging him on there. There's plenty of ways to start talking to him. And later on if y'all really open up just tell him how you feel. And if he don't feel the same way, well then there's always someone else out there you just don't know it yet. Good Luck! :)
Well, the notes probably weren't the best idea. But you can always fix it, just pretend you don't know anything about it and when your around him don't think about it. Cause if you do, then that's whats going to make things awkward. Try talking to him again.
I'll try that, but I'm pretty sure he already knows I like him and thinks I'm a creep. Me and my friend decided to play a joke on him and write a few notes in his binder, just to see if he noticed it. And he did. And one of his friends recognized my handwriting and probably told him it was me. He was dating another girl and we heard her talking about another guy she was going out with, so we wrote a note saying that she was cheating on him. I guess the notes werent the best idea. Now I think he knows it's me. The other day, my friend got me to talk to him. I decided to tell him his shirt looked nice. I sincerely regret that now. But I was talking about it with another one of my friends and she reaches up and taps him on the shoulder and points at me, and I can barely squeak out the words. I was going to say it when I could walk away without it being akward, but we were in a confined space and I could barely move as it was. So I said it and his response was "what?" I said "nevermind" and turned around. I told my friend later that she had ruined everything and just made it more akward, but she said "How? At least he said thanks." I told her he said what, not thanks. But she said she heard him say thanks after I had already given up. Why do I always ruin these things? I just don't understand. I want to talk to him really bad, but I'm so afraid I'll just ruin it again and make myself look like even more of an idiot.