So first of all I'm a 16 year old girl. My mom does not allowe me to go ANYWHERE other than school. If I ever go somewhere it have to be family thing. So this way I don't ever get to hang out with any of my friends not at my house, not at their house, not at the park, not at restaurants movies or any where.never ever. not even to do homework or just like do anything. I once asked if I could go to the movies with my two friends( girls), she started yelling at me and told me not to ask again and made me feel guilty about it as if it's something to be a shamed of to go out with friends. And I even asked of I could go alone to the city library to get some book she was like "your kidding me right? No you can't"
Any advice on this messed up situation?? I think I'm so depressed now because all I do is stay home with no one to talk to
I don't know what the question is I just need it advice. Desperately?
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They are specifically trained for such things. I don't happen to know what they might do, but whatever they do they have a lot of influence.
Try getting in contact with someone who can help. In this situation it’s ok to go against you mothers wishes because it’s not a disrespect to her necessarily, you’re honestly being trapped and in this situation you don’t have to agree or honor her descision if it’s affecting your emotional health. Try talking to her and telling her that this hurts your mental/emotional health first. If that doesn’t work see if you can get someone to pick you up, such as a family member (probably should be a family member or family friend so it’s not just anyone picking you up and they have close ties with your mother so they can help you). It’s ok to tell a family member or an adult who can do something. You should try with that person as well to get in contact with someone who does family counseling. Also if you know someone close who doesn’t mind, staying somewhere outside of your home can help greatly. If you go to family counseling or something similar there’s a good chance they will also reccomend you stay out of your house for awile. Good luck and I hope things get better.
I will try doing that. Thank you
And how would they be about to help?