I am 14 and female, and I usually laugh a lot and yesterday I went to Morrisons which is across the road from my school, and got the sudden urge to walk away, I wanted to commit suicde. There is way more to this and I don't want to share but I'm just confused why I was a laughing and loud person yesterday and now I'm completely quiet and I feel so alone and miserable the day after the urge incident. What do you guys think it is? Today a teacher came to me and asked what's the matter with me and I told her to f*ck off and I feel so bad about that now and I have feeling the urge to self harm which i drew on my hands to prevent, why have I changed in such a small time space I know you won't be able to answer but what would you think if you were a teacher and a very happy/loud/laughing/Extroverted student suddenly became the opposite, thanks
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1. Are you taking any new meds? A lot of different meds have weird effects on us.
2. Are you around people with those "conditions" frequently?
3. Have you been tired lately? Many times I've acted differently then usual because i was very tired.
These are the only reasons I can think of for your problems. Please tell me which numbers aply to you. Afterwards I will tell you what I think you should do!
DON'T TAKE THESE OFFENSIVE BUT THESE ARE MOST REASONS!
1. period? that can make you feel like this?
2.are you around people who feel like this? that can make you upset and feel the same way if so stay away from them people
3. is something bothering you at school? it seems that way i may be wrong but if so speech to someone NOW if its making you feel this way
no that wouldn't be. as a teen myself and also a girl I sometimes feel the same but it most certainly isn't the period. I know a lot of people who self harm and do it for attention but yours does sound a bit weird. my best friend cuts and stuff but the other day I took everything sharp from her and told her mum about what was happening. and how could you blame it on a cycle every girl has! That's mean! And for your information I know BOYS who cut. it is a teen age thing. at one point we want to run away or neck our selves or punch things or cut because we think that we have no one that will care or love us. trust me if you want to do anything stupid consult someone you trust first and talk it out of you. BUT DO NOT HURT YOURSELF!!!
so these are the reasons that I think could be doing this
1. You might be going through hormonal changes/your period
2. As someone else said it can be the side effects of some meds
3. The devil might have started stalking you or something. I am not joking. I suggest reading the Bible. (sorry about this but you are a sinner and the curse of sin is death, but Jesus died as a substitute and paid for your sins. but only if you repent and believe in him.)
No no and tired of life if that counts