Hi, I'm 15 years old and I have been in a relationship for 2 1/2 years with my boyfriend of 16. We have a good relationship and have had intercourse 2 or 3 times. He worries a lot about me and me becoming pregnant which is completely understandable. However, one day, he turned round to me and told me he wanted to stop having intercourse. I am completely fine with this now and I understand as it does save him a lot of worry, but I am ready and I don't know how to tell him that I am and I want to. I love my relationship with him but it's difficult because everyone has urges..I just don't want to freak him out. Is there anyway I could explain to him how I feel in a sensible way?
Thanks :)
I don't know how to explain this and how to tell this but help would be appreciated?
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- 3+ months ago by littlylight
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Answers (3)
Well I think trying to convince him that it will all be fine, and state the facts to try to calm and pursue him.
Make sure you always have protected sex, with a condom.
And if your not allready, i would tell your family docter you are sexually active and would wish to be put on birth control.
Don't be afraid to tell your docter your situation, because thats his job, and im sure you will be able to keep it between you and him.
I'm sure even your mom will be understanding and more then happy to give you some advice.
Moms know best.
Oh, and birth control is also proven to treat acne and prevent it. ahah.
Anyways, if you make sure you really protected, then your boyfriend wont even be able to worry, because if you use condoms, and are on birth control, the chances of you getting pregnant are one in a million. So just try to throw these facts at him, but also remember you cant force him to do anything h dosn't want to. Perhaps the reason has nothing to do with being worried about you becoming pregnant, maybe it's becuase he dosn't feel comfortable or right having intercourse with you.
Hope this helped!!
Good luck.
