Q: my Girlfriend tells me I am " the most important thing in her life" she says she is always their for me but then when I need her she is with her friends. So I guess I have a few qustions: should I trust her? Am I too needy? I guess I jest need relationship advice. Ooohh and we are both 15.
I don't know how to explain the Q in only a few words?
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- 3+ months ago by Danny spe...
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- life, girl, boy, love, boyfriend, girlfriend, always
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The only thing I have to say about this is that if it bothers u that she is with her friends when u need her to be there for u, u just need to be honest with her. Tell her that she isnt acting serious enough about wanting to be there for you, actions speak louder then words. I don't know enough about whats going on to say if u can trust her or not. What do u mean by that? Do u mean that u dont know if u can trust that she'll be ther efor u when u need her? Being 15 and feeling so strongly for someone is hard on teenagers, they get confused sometimes and they sometimes are unsure of what they want and I'm not trying to be mean, just speaking the truth. Considering both of u are young, u two might need to really talk and see if she just wants to be friends or if she wants to be ur girlfriend. It seems to me that she doesnt really know what she wants. She says ur important to her, believe her if thats what u want, if u doubt her u need to talk to her.
I know what you mean. But this is a strong, mature relationship. We have been thru alot together. I love her and she loves me… even the spastic parts. Haha. We trust care and understand eachother. And I know that MOST high school things don't last but trrust me. I found the one I love erly in life and I am so greatful. And don't say " oh Daniel, that's nieve to say that" if you say that then you don't understand the magnitude of my relationship. I'm not trying to be a jerk. I'm sorry. And thank you for the advice. It was very helpful
I'm 26, i have been in love with the same person since we were 14. I have never stopped loving him or wanting him. He's married now, and he said it would be me but it isnt.. LOL, but trust me, I know how u feel.. I was in love at 14 and still am. Nothing he does will push me away ever... I love deep, and hard. U remind me of when I fell in love with him...
Thank you… thank you so much. You are a saint … haha and I dint even no you. Haha. I hope in 5-10 years i'm still with Emily, that's her name Emily. You have already helped me so much. What can I do to repay you?
lol... um, i dont know. I definatly am under alot of stress right now.. I just want my life to end up the way that is best for me, ya know? been in love with the boy for like 12 years.. Trying to let him go and I cant dont know if i want to or not, but my relationships dont work out because i'm in love with him. I'm dating someone new, and have a feeling it isnt going to last. I want it to, but i still have this little glimmer of hope that my love will call for me someday.. How does that seem to u? I mean am I crazy to want him? Am I being stupid to love him continuously? He loves me. He says it all the time and I believe him. But he married someone else. LOL. Sorry I'm rambling, I just need advice. I want to go on with my life with my new boyfriend, he likes me, but it seems as though he's keeping things from me,lol.. I am definatly in need of a councilor! LOL
Haha my best advice is… and I no it sounds clichet but jest follow your heart. Of he realy wants to be with you then he shouldd make the comitment. Idk. That's what I would do and for your bf. If you like him enuff then you will be able to work thru it. Tell him how you feel about your friend. If he wants to make it work he will. For exaple. The other day I said to my girlfriend " I love you Emily" she said " I love you too sam" my name is Daniel. I trust har to tell me the truth and she jest made a mistake. I understand. Her mind is on slot of things. And in the long run it made our relationship stronger. A forgave her befor she relzed the mistake. I want to make it work so I say forgive and forget haha.
I know what you mean. But this is a strong, mature relationship. We have been thru alot together. I love her and she loves me… even the spastic parts. Haha. We trust care and understand eachother. And I know that MOST high school things don't last but trrust me. I found the one I love rely in life and I am so greatful. And don't say " oh Daniel, that's nieve to say that" if you say that then you don't understand the magnitude of my relationship. I'm not trying to be a jerk. I'm sorry. And thank you for the advice. It was very helpful