all i care about is a girl from school and my grades have dropped to F's my parents have threatened to to military school im 13 years old it seems like life has just gotten hard and i cant keep anything in my mind for less then 2 mins... any help???...
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That's a tough one.. At 13, you're supposed to be studying, not dating...HOWEVER, it is normal for boys undergoing puberty to develop an interest in girls. Your parents need to understand that. YOU need to understand that Studying id the most important thing now, not dating.
Suppose you dated her and you'll fell in love and got married, how would you support her? Where would you get a job? How would you take care of your kids? You may get a job, but you will have to struggle.
However, if you just listen to me and study hard, you will be able to find a higher paying job, and can live a better life...Then you can think of marrying her.
I agree it can be hard, but don't give up. Fight the urge to like her as if you were fighting for your life. Your life is important. Don't let go. You can do it! And don't go to military school.....Prove to your parents that you can take a little bit of responsibility and earn their trust!
All the Best!
Thanks that helps a lot.