This kid is confusing me! He is at my bus stop and he drives me crazy. This kid was abusive now he is hitting on me. He used to throw rocks at me, call me a bitch, white trash (he's Puerto-Rican and Italian mixed) and a slut, tugging on my clothes and saying he was going to kill me! After 3 monthes he starts getting flirty with me. He was saying how cute and beautiful i am right infront of his girlfriend. He started calling me babe and telling me he loves me. He's even trying read my personal stuff like the note i was passing back and forth with one kid on the bus so the guy couldn't but in to conversations like he does with me and my friend. Does this kid like me or does he dislike me?
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I believe what your dealing with is Common young boy flirting, A good example from my schooldays, in snowball fights. Guys was always like "Dude why you shooting at her" (lets keep names outta this) and then he says "I'm the one that's shooting at her" which, people could actually get into big argues about who's gonna shoot who. The main reason being that the guys wanted too shoot the Girls they like too draw attention.
You know so maybe they would get interested.
In other words. Guys irritate the girls they like the most. because they are shy.
Now too get a guy too stop, there's two things you can try.
1) Tell him after school that you don't like him and that his lucky with the girlfriend he got.
Or if that doesn't work
2) Tell him in public that you hate him and that he should stop bothering you!
Else just ignore him, one thing we guys don't have is patience.
Those normally work on me so I hope it works on him too
The Dude
Jubii31
Actually Jubii31, I wrote a note i didn't like him and his girlfriend was furious! The kid was so pissed at me. After spring break I will switch back to my old bus stop (I went to another because of a girl and i couldn't decide who was worse. She got kicked out and i will return shortly).