... alone? I love my husband with all that i am, but when he was in prison i was unfaithful... all i wanted was to not feel so alone,the physical aspects i was missing.... I really don't know how i allowed it to happen bc I do love my husband more than life... but i was so alone and goin through some hard emotional times. Please just give me honest advice and not hate... I know what I did, and that it was wrong. I can't make it go away but will I ever be able to make it right?
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If he doesn't know, and no one else knows who may tell him, and you love him... forgive yourself, and love him like never before! What he doesn't know won't hurt your relationship, seeing as you love your man. Just make sure you came out with a clean bill of health, or else, what he doesn't know could harm both of you!
ty, and i believe this too
You're most welcome,
Ok. That changes things. I suppose that how quickly forgiveness comes from him will depend on several factors: Was he in jail for months or years before you cheated? How long have you been married? Is he the forgiving type, or was he in for a violent crime?
Anyhow, rebuilding trust mostly just takes time. Time and dedication. Ask him what he needs from you to help rebuild the trust. I think that you just posting this question shows that you are sorry from the heart. Maybe show it to him? Promise to buy a vibrator, if he should go away again! I hope it works out, best of luck!
You think a vibrator will help with this issue ?
Has anyone thought abt the fact that if he had not messed up and wound up in jail she would have never been put in this situation in the first place?????? He needs to apologize to her for messing up their lives in the first place - yes she made a mistake BUT come on now!!
I told him. I have always been 100% honest with him about everything and i didn't want to hide it. I don't want to lie to him ever. I just hope he can forgive me. ty for ur advice. it is appreciated.