i fell in love with this guy in october and he liked me too. we were 'together' and everything was fine until i stopped liking him. whenever i was at home, and he wasnt with me, i had a HUGE crush on him again and was like, stalking him on facebook, listening to his fav songs, and just plain looking at pictures of him. then when i went to school the next day, and saw him all my feelings just left and i thought of him as just a friend. but whe he says my name or looks at me my heart JUMPS to the sky. he NEVER talks to me at school. when we text he tells me EVERYTHING. he loves me and i think i like him just not when i see him. do i like him or not? i think i do. i even made a song about him. it winter break and im obsesssed with him now but i dont know whats gonna happen when i see him. do i love him?
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You feelings jumping around for him can be explained through Facebook. Its all through social engineering of Facebook that changes your conscious perception of people. You see him through his Facebook "self" which you fall in love with, then you see his actual real life side and every feeling you had disappears.
If he can only talk through text to you, then you may have to reconsider having a relationship with him, unless he starts talking face-to-face.
Yes you do love, but he seems shy, which is usually what guys are when girls like them.
I'll tell you this, fall in love with the 'real' him; not the 'Facebook' him.
Avoid texting and Facebook.
thx! that really helped i haent texted him for like 3 weeks. and i did forget to mention that he is just natrally shy. REALLY shy. not just around me either. thx for your feedback i will let you know what happens. :)
yes you do like him but his shy maybe because he know that he likes you and you like him too.
you know that how boy are like just all ways try to talk to him so times
at school or on facebook.
If you do not like him in real life, you don't like him. If you really like someone you don't have to question yourself about your feelings. I think you need to be real with yourself and have a serious talk with your boyfriend. It sounds like me that you should break up;.
thx. i respect your answer but hes not my boyfriend.this will help. thx for your opinion. :)
Just tell him you can't text him and you can only talk in person. If he agrees than go for him! Get to know to real him, then start texting again.