I dress nicely, but i'm not over excessive with clothing (suits everyday, dress shoes everyday ect.) I use cologne but not too much. I have a swimmer's body, not chubby, no six pack. I am very kind to people. I share almost everything, I give advice that people respect and people like hanging out with me. A lot of people I know tell me that I have a good face too, that it is handsome.
I put myself out there, I get girls phone numbers, and our text conversations as well as real conversations go very well. We have deep conversations and I don't throw my problems at her, or text too much. I give her space and I am respectful. I am open to new experiences, try new things all the time, am not a goodie goodie per say, but i stay away from the hard drugs and stuff.
I get good grades, and I forgot to mention, i'm 17. Since 6th grade, I have asked out 37 different girls (yes, I kept track) and I always changed the date depending on what the girl and I liked. I wanted to give the girl a fun time that I know she would enjoy, and it would be a great first date. So for instance, I asked a girl if she wanted to go see Les Miserables on broadway, because I had two tickets. See I thought that was a very cool fun idea, especially for a first date. We get to dress up and go and in between during the intermission we can talk, and the theatre is better than the movie theater because of that. Another time, I knew this girl wouldn't dig the fancier side of things, so I thought that going bowling might be a fun time. It's casual, there's some competition to keep things exciting and interesting, plus we can get some pizza and talk and chill. Yet, to all of these different girls, I have always gotten the same answer to these dates.
"No."
I don't understand, neither do my friends, I am mostly friends with guys, but I have a few friends who are girls. I am always trying to meet new people though. I am confident and like I said, put myself out there. When I am around girls i'm confident, and when I asked those girls on dates I was confident. My voice isn't high, and it's not very deep. I have a good haircut, and my teeth are good. Nails are good. I just get so depressed when I get rejected because I don't know what to do. Sorry this is long, but it did say provide as much detail as possible. So provide detail I did! haha!
-Tanner
P.S.- I have a very good taste in music. Pink Floyd. The Doors. Rolling Stones. The Kinks. Led Zeppelin, Rush, Porcupine trees, Slint, Johnny Cash, RHCP, and so much more. On My Ipod Classic I have 8000 songs. hahaha! I also have a lot of indie and alternative, and I'm always discovering new music that I show my friends. I'm a big musician. I play Piano, Guitar, Bass, Clarinet, Tenor Saxophone, Bassoon, and I can sing pretty well.