Me and my boyfriend went out for about 7 months, we would have sex nearly every time we saw each other. We then broke up for 3 weeks, I didn't have sex with anyone else or getting fingered or finger myself or anything like that. We have recently got back together, when we first had sex it was slightly painful when he put his penis inside of me and it's still a bit like that and I've been slightly bleeding afterwards? Oh and he did have sex with other people whilst we were broken up.