I am a married women.I am also having a relation with someother guy before marriage and am still maintaining it and i dont like the marriedlife and i dont have guts to say to my family about the extra relationship i am having. The guy whom i love also cant marry me due to his family sitution.I dont know what to be done.Please help me...
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Why r u afraid to tell your parents u r a grown woman.
yep if you are not happy wid ur married life den its better to get outa that relation becz u r not only hurting ur self but at the same time u r cheating ur husband n dis is not good.... try to say it to ur parents... u r not getting enuf courage n for that u r not toking to ur parents abt it this wont b a solution to ur problem...
Can you help me out how to explain this problem to my family.
just tok to ur husband abt all dis n tthen tell this to ur family but first u have to tell ur husband
Mmm.
First you have to tell your husband. This can really hurt him, if you don't tell him soon. And it will already hurt him.
Tell the other man, that you will have to stop until after you get divorced. (Don't cheat anymore)
And get a divorce BEFORE!!! You have any children!!! Because if you have children, and get a divorce, you will ruin their Lives!! I know, believe me!!
You really have to think about this, and how it can effect the lives of the others around you.
Either try and save your marriage or get a divorce, whatever you do, do it soon.
I guess you have to sit down and talk to this other guy and figure out if you can still maintain it but you need to sit down with your husband and tell him how you feel no matter if it hurts and figure out if things need to be done hubby has to know something is wrong or not going right you really isn't fair to either one
It sounds like your looking for any easy way out...theres not going to be one...my biggest pet peeve is cheating when you say i do....thats it...but since you feel as though you made a wrong choice woman up if youre woman enough to cheat be woman enough to be honest to your husband...as far as your family is concerned youre grown...if they love you then they will step back and let you do whats best for you...but what i dont understand is why cant you and the other man be together...unless hes married....to me dating a married person/someone in a relationship was never worth the energy....im selfish...lol im not going to be number two to anyone EXCEPT i exspect to be number 2 to my husband because our son should be 1st...but number two to another woman...no no no...so it sounds as if hes married and if so...break ties...cut him loose! Youll never be number 1 and honestly once a cheat...always....even if you dont you got the potental to....but either way you go...you got to be honest to your husband....me....id be balistic because one you said your vows and two (most importantly) your putting him at risk for stds and aids...........as well as yourself...cheating is just trifling to me....with me and my husband....he gets what he wants how he wants when he wants and vice versa no need to cheat....if it gets to the point of cheating somwthing has to be lacking or the persons a *****
But i am afraid to tell my parents about the relation. In fact thinking how to convey this to them. I know i am spoiling lives but what to do i have no idea.