... I am her only student.but now problem is she allways coniseder me as a child and punish me like a little boy.for any mistake in tuition time,she give me punishments like stand with ear hold,sit-ups etc.like childhood.she also twist my ears whenever she want.all this things are very shamefull for me in this age but I can't say anything to her.what can I do?
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She is your teacher from your childhood. So like your parents she consider you as a child and deals with you. Better you in the presence of your mother(if possible) explain her, you are now grown up and in this stage, the way she treated you, harms you psychologically. So better ask her treat you as a grown up boy. Definitely she will change her attitude.
take punishment ear holding,ear twisting etc: but i am 17 i still get murgha in my tution
what to do i am a girl alredy i wear earrings but my parents never listen
Hi ,
I read your comments about your teacher. I'm also a teacher and I also punish my student. But, my punishments are very mild. Like kneel down holding ears, stand up holding ears. But, I had always an agreement before tuition with my students. There are other girls who watch this punishment. I've students who are in 20's . I found this works. I'm a 29 years old housewife.
I need to know more about it.
I've few questions:
Do you feel really bad or you feel good also about this punishment ?
How old is your teacher ?
How old are you ?
I don't feel good beacause punishments like standup with earhold,earholding sit-ups etc.infront of her is realy very shamefull for me in this grown up age.when she catch and twist my ears,I am in extreme humiliation at that time.she regularly catch/twist my ear whenever she want for a long time and sometimes with her smiley face.all this things are just unbeareble for me.I want just realease from this types of humiliating situation.I am 22 and she is 33.
Thanks for the answer.
Are you from Kolkata?
I need to know more about your teacher.
Did you talk to her about this ?
Besides, ear twisting does she punish you like
Keel down holding ears
Stand up holding ears
Like these ?
Did he ever punish you in front of someone else ?
No,I am not from kolkata.and I tell at first,she punish me like standup with earhold,earholding sit-ups etc.infront of her.she never punish me infront of someone else.she teach me in a single room and there is nobody stay there in tuition time.now why you are interested to know many more about my miss?I want just escape from this types of shamefull punishments from her.and you give me suggetion only about that if you can.iether don't disturb me.
Ok.
Only one remedy if you don't do whatever she says.
Deny her. Tell her , "I'm not going to do it , do whatever you can do".
You are an adult and if you don't want , you don't have to take this punishment.
Dear Sutapa, Am from Kolkata. I was punished many times in School. My School had many many teachers, who were kneel down specialists. Specially the Bengali Madam, made us kneel always both our ears caught! We called this a Nil down. I have many experiences in this Punishment.
Dear Sutapa: I had similar experience in the final years of school. I got tuition from my schoolmistress aunt (14 years senior to me)-I called him 'didimoni' - she used to pull my ears at the slightest pretext. I had to kneel down before her and got my ears thoroughly twisted. she taught me separately and not in a group. She used to boast of her authority over her other students - all boys, who submitted to her punishment. She was a loving authority and during long math sessions used to give me delicious snacks. I succumbed to all her punishment including occasional caning of my bottom. But privately, I confess, I enjoyed punishment at her hand. She continued her reign over me even when I was in college. I had a superstition that I would fare badly in exam if she did not give me at least ten ear pulls ('kanmola' in Bengali) the night before. She lovingly obliged me before every exam and gave me a goodnight kiss on my forehead before I went to sleep.
hi. i am new to this site. got the matter. but i want to say that i think a teacher is always thinking of what will be good for a student. i think so she do like that with you. please tallk to her and try to come out of that situation as you are a college student.
Hi,this is not possible because my mother give her full permisson to punish me for my educational progress.so miss take the chance and punish me for my any minor mistake in tuition like this and treat me like a little boy.what should I do?plz suggest me soon.