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I am a boy who is 14 and christian. puberty made me bi what do I do?
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- 3+ months ago by jeremy1996
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- boy, christian, boys, help
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Our sexuality varies and changes as we grow into adults. This is not something to be repressed or feared. Talking to someone will help, but so will being open with your self about what you are feeling.
Who you talk to will have a great effect on the conversation though, as you can imagine a catholic priest will have quite a different take on this subject than, say, a GLBTQ counselor. Friends are usually a good place to start, but they can be oftly judgmental at 14. Who you turn to is, of course, entirely a personal matter and not for anyone else to say.
Jeremy I don't know if you have spoken with anyone about this but I truly think you should talk with your Mother about it if at all possible. I don't know what kind of relationship you have with your parents - both they are your best bet at first. Friends can be very judgemental and hurtful. It is normal to have conflicting thoughts - fantasies as a person in puberty. Don't be afraid of these thoughts but do talk with someone that has already been through puberty that you can trust to be confidential. Good luck.
Ask for Christian counseling.many your age go through that,but beware of the devil's tricks as many have been tricked to mess up .beware of that and read psalm 119 and Ephesians & should help. Later if struggling with gay life,contact the good folke at Narth.com as they are the best in that area & are Drs,Scientists,Researchers & others formed together to help confused sex ID & gays,etc. I think as you are aware of yourself & a Christian trusting God,He will pull you through it if you show Him you want His help.Resist the devil & enjoy just being a kid.Only happens one time around.
i don't think you need to worry too much. this could just be a phase that'll pass over time. or you probably are bi sexual. it wouldn't bother me to be around you. i've had friends in the past who where both gay and bi but they where still cool people and don't waste your time with any counciling. there's nothing you can't learn from your friends that counciling would tell you. i think counciling makes stuff like this worse.
if i had to get any more counciling about stupid stuff i would go insane.
well first of all your a christian the first person you should be turning to is GOD not online people
so alot of hard praying
and god will help u the only way to slov this is by praying to our all powerful and mighty god!!!! ,hope u give this a go and i will also pray for you tonight