I am a 16 year old boy and I believe that I have some chemical imbalance in my head.
I feel "more" fancy to "men" ! I feel fancy either to women but more to men. For example I never feel fancy when I see a naked woman. I only feel fancy when I'm masturbating and else. How can I have a treatment? What should I do? I don't want to be a gay or bisexual. I even can't ask this problem even my mother is a doctor,because of I feel shy. If I ever ask her,she says these feelings are normal as I'm in puberty but these are temporarily feelings. Sometimes I think if I have a sex for the first time with a lady,it would be helpful for me permanently?
I am a 16 year old boy and I believe that I have some chemical imbalance in my head?
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You are still very young, and your mother may be right - it may pass. It's not uncommon for young males to be "curious" about the same sex. However, it may not pass, and this is nothing to be ashamed about. The Gay and Bisexual population is not only growing, but also becoming more accepted. Being gay now doesn't mean the same thing it did even 10 years ago. Long story short, this may all be a phase in your life that will pass soon enough. But, it may also be how you are, and is nothing to be afraid of! There is no "chemical imbalance" or "procedure" to fix it. You are who you are, and that is great! Just keep on living your life, and follow your heart. In the end, you'll know whether you are gay, bisexual, or just going through a phase. No matter what happens, embrace who you are and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.