i am going into year 10 this wednesday and she is going into year 8. we have never talked yet alone properly look at each other. i want to ask her out but my friends would make fun of me and it would get spread around the school.
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I am the same, I liked a boy in the year below me and I found out he liked me!
I'm 13 in 8th grade and to me, asking out a 6th grader would be weird. I recommend looking for more options in your own grade because to be brutally honest, I think you would be made fun of for asking out a 6th grader.
You are going through a very challenging time in your life and
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I'm not sure if my answer will make any sense - but - here it goes.
She may like you - yes. But in a different way than how you like her.
She hasn't really gone through puberty yet while you have. If she does like you than it is in a younger kid sort of way.
Though you like her in a more mature and grown up way.
It really depends on how mature she is mentally and physically - it could be a potentially bad idea, meaning that her parents may not approve.
I say no - maybe wait until she is at least a teenager and then do it but it's really up to you.
Good Luck!
Just start by talking to her about something really funny or interesting. Then when you pass her in the hall, give her a smirk and go to your next class. Don't be too clingy- trying to get in her space. Then start talking to her more, and ask her if she could go (somewhere fun)with you; only if you're really good friends.
Do not ask her out yet ! Just flirt with her and keep her on her toes . Let it simmer . When she opens up to you completely , Just ask her . Try to act nervous when you ask her . Mess with your hair , twidle your thumbs and then she will see how you actually want to date her and will more than likely want to be with you
i have the same problem my mom goes throught all my stuff and wont let me go out with this cute boy i like