my little brother has a 18 years old friend.I love that boy and want to have relationship with him ,please give me advice to how i can show my love to him and make him closer to my self.and i don't have sex with any body and I've just like him about 2 years (so he is not underage now) however i don't want my brother know that.
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How about you get yourself to church and prey for forgiveness of such evil thoughts of sin. I don't hate you, but i prey for your misguidance to be fixed, because it is not right at all in the eyes of our lord. Homosexuality is wrong with no exceptions.
But that said. I still love you and hope that you can be helped because you will be free and can then live a happy life. Maybe even marry a wonderful woman.
Take care, i wish you the best, but you will have the best if you shun homosexual thoughts of sin now and turn to our Lord God.
Best wishes.
I'd say, become friends with him first. Then somewhat into the friendship, find out his orientation. If you become good friends , through similar interests and hanging out a lot, and if he's also gay, he will probably become attracted to you. If he's straight and you still want him, it's going to be a little trickier but not impossible, unless he's homophobic. If he's the open minded type, you can start by asking questions, carefully approaching the topic of homosexuality, to let him get used to the idea. Heck, I don't know if this helps, but I read somewhere that watching porn together creates a more intimate bond, a lot of tension and the chance that some experimenting might be done, although I don't know if that's appropriate or not, you decide. Moving on, after he gets used to the idea, you could try some ambiguous flirting, not much...just small compliments that shouldn't seem too out of place. Also by becoming friends, your brother wouldn't need to suspect anything. Tag along when they go places, just for the hell of it and after a while, you could ask the boy to hang out with you separately from your brother. Anyways, I wish you the best of luck and please don't pay attention to the other comment telling you your orientation is a sin. I really hope this helps.
I'm sorry. I wouldn't know. I can only guess and I don't want to ruin it. If I were in your place, I would probably occasionally swing my arm around his neck, friendly, but a little tighter/, suggestive maybe. I don't know, it all depends on his personality and reactions
Hehehe :-) omg that's adorable you like someone!!! Ok, I think you should tell your brother first that you want help. Be honest of how you feel for your brothers friend. Then, try to have some bonding time with your brothers friend. Tell each other secrets, likes and dislikes, favorite movies and so on!!! Finally, when you grow that close to him just tell him how you feel about him!!! Think positive and good luck Amigo!!! XD
yeah I know,anyway thank u .but what should i do in next level?(i mean better way for Physical contact?)