... close to turning 18 when we met. Were not dating but we have something going on like we've kissed and hugged but have not dated. We started off as friends and she decided to date when she turns 16 and I'll be 20. It seems wrong but her mom is older than her dad by 9 years and their dad has a different kid with a different lady. Lately we've been arguing for the smallest thing for ex I have to ask her permission wherever I go she's controlling hits me all the time their just stupid things for stupid reasons. She reached her breaking point. She wants to end it she wants to move on and get over me but I told her to give each other space instead. We have tried to work things out and they always fail. Were both tired of arguing. She doesn't agree in giving each other space instead she wants to move on! should I let her go? Will she come back? I need help I really love this girl
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If I were you i would just try to brush it off. Girls her age normally don't stick to one guy. You are a 19 year old man you got your whole life ahead of you still, you shouldn't waste your time on one girl who said she wants to end it a multiple times. Your old enough to go out and meet some fine women, and almost 21 too, you will be partying and drinking with your friends soon and meeting even more women while doing it. There is a girl out there for you and all you have to do is look for her, You don't have to find the rite girl for you so soon but you can go out and have some fun with girls waiting to meet the rite guy and who knows you just might find her next time you go out. My advice is to let the 15 year old go and find a real girl. Go have some fun out there in the world, you seem like a good guy, live a little.
I know it's hard dude but she's a child, there's only trouble ahead, try not to get caught up in the court system.
@Chevey so what if I wait for her? Will she still like me? Will her feelings change? I have never disrespected her or her family! I don't mind waiting for her but is it really worth it? Will I be wasting my time? What's a mature age for a girl to date?
im in the same kind of thing i love this guy we have dated before and got caught my parents flipped i get guys all the time i just love him i do i love !!?? help me please !
thanks for trying to help man :) but she's different than any other girl and same goes for me. We both have a good heart help people out these are some of the many reasons why I wouldnt let her go. She gave up her first kiss with me we hanged out did many things together and I don't really have any friends because of my religion. I'm Christian I don't party smoke drink. I did so much for this girl all for it to go to waste? I don't think so. And make me believe that there is a girl out there who really wants mean girl who is different because I don't see it from the looks of it.