... since the second year he's been mentioning 'sex.' I am still a virgin and im really afraid of what my mother will say( me and my mother talk about EVERYTHING) ! I feel as though im loosing what we have because i wont do it. Should i do it or let him go?????
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well if you have sex with your mom wouldn't be able to say to much about it if she doesn't know your having sex and as long as you use a condom you won't get pregnant so it is up to you if you want to have sex with this guy or not but don't be afarid of what your mother will say you don't need to tell her unless you get pregnant and if you use a condom that won't happen so don't worry
Where are you from? Most places, the legal age of consent is 16, so I wouldn't do it. You could get him into ALOT of trouble if you have sex with him while you are 15. And if you are loosing what you 2 have just because you won't have sex with him, then he's not worth it. A guy that truly loves you, will wait for you. I think you should talk to him, and if he's not willing to wait, let him go. There are plenty of boys out there. (:
Keep your relationship strong with your mother. Keep that trust going. You still grow in up have allot to learn your mother best for that. Once you break your mother trust in you and break her heart. She start question you and the bond not the same. Wait a few more years. Enjoy being young. Don't try to grow up so fast. If he truly cares about you he will wait until you ready and older. Most the time relationship like this end after awhile. If he goes to college he Wil find many of girls and date them maybe have sex with them. . You will have lots of boys interested in you. If he can't wait. . Remain strong don't let anyone pressure you into anything
thanks...your right