Me and my have been together for 11 months. Him and I really want to have sex I just am really scared because I don't want to get pregnant or anything happen. We have been really close to doing it but I always stop. I need help please comment!
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Extremely young. In my opinion you are taking things way to fast and should not even be in that seriousness of a relationship. You shouldn't have to have that sort of commitment yet. But that's only opinion. Regarding your question, are you ready? If so take measures. Birth Control or condoms. But i suggest not doubling up because that increases the risk of breaking the condom. So my advice is slow down and have fun.
I also say to wait until you're both ready to deal with whatever may happen. I only know that people are hardly happy together when things are rushed. As for anything bad happening, It's hardly impossible to get pregnant at 13, Even with protection. Try slowing things down. Think for the future, especially the near future.
Don't do it, theres always a chance you ll end up pregnant. And at your age you really dont want that. Babies cost about 600 a month just in the beginning for only diapers and wipes, let alone food, clothing, toys. And at your age school is so important to you.
I would wait if I were you. Wait until youre at least 16, preferably 18+ and graduated from highschool. Men are manipulative trust me, I am one. If he really loves you he'll wait too. Theres so much to a relationship than sex, and if you rush into it, generally thats what the relationship will be based upon.
Hope I helped..
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