We aren't sure what we should do with the baby, I am 3 months preggo, and we really love eachother, what is this going to be like, how much does labor and giving birth hurt, will I be able to do this...
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This is serious....
In all honesty, this is ridiculous. You're 13 years old. Some people commenting are saying they are 13 also & have sex all the time too. When you're 13 you should be out spending time with your friends, family, & be living your life. You shouldn't be out having sex. When you're 13, you have a whole life ahead of you. You haven't even made it to high school yet. In no means am I saying you need to have an abortion because I am 125% against it, but you should think about some sort of adoption. When you have those babies, you also have to find a way to pay for them. You have to find daycare. What do you do when you want to spend time with your friends? You have to find someone to take care of the babies. Your aunt may be there for you right now, but eventually stress will take over & she will get tired of having to take care of them while you are maturing & finding that who is here for you one day, may not be there the next. People change in the blink of an eye. All your friends that you have now, may not be your friends by the end of your high school years (if you continue schooling). I know this will in no way shape or form change your mind. But give it a ponder. Your life WILL completely change after you have those kiddos. You can ask anyone that has had kids that are younger. You don't get to do all the fun stuff. You should really wait until marriage. Not only are you bringing children into the world that have a young mother, you could be transmitting diseases & STDs. Also some kids that are born to teenage mothers have a higher risk of birth deffects & forms of autism & mongolism. Abstinence is the only birth control method that is 100% effective. Give it all a ponder & those who read this, especially if you are 13, know your life with change MAJORLY. Anyways, good luck & I hope you make the right choice.(: & "Preggo" is all cute & stuff, but not everything about birth is "cute".
what are you doing having sex at that age im 14 yes of course i think about sex and want to like every other teenager but i would never do it until i'm 18 and all grown up. taking care of a baby is really hard and for you to be 13 your still young your own self you dont need all that stress on you at such a young age you are suppose to be thinking about school getting an education not having sex at a early age nowing there high risk of you getting preggo i'm sorry but i really think u should get abortion
Wow...i'm shocked. Congratulations, if you'll keep them! The first thing that comes to mind is.... What's wrong with using protection? If you want to have sex...
Second is remember you two are not the only ones involved. Everyone around you has to deal with your descisions you will have to make from now on. Tell your parents. They need to know! It will cost a lot. Not only money, also time, energy, your life...
Third... The congratulations, but i've already done that.
Last...abortion is not per definition a worse choice...
I wish you all the best... Good luck!
Some people who responded to this are quite rude. I am not here to tell at you like some people but I will tell you this. I am 12 and I think I am 3 months pregnant like you. It is a scary feeling. But don't worry about the pain because if you go into labor, they have this thing called an epidural where it numbs you from the waist down so you cannot feel the pain, but for some people sometimes you can still feel a little pain it depends. But have you told ur parents?
Hi young ladies. I repeat:
It is not the end of the world. You are not the first or the last person to fall pregnant this young. It must be very scary and I am glad that you have opted to keep the baby. Just hang in there. Soon, the dust will settle and time will pass. You will thank yourself one day when your child grows to not only liberate you, but the world. You are both (and the blessing within you) going to be just fine :) #hug
Nothing, absolutely nothing, can separate you from the love of God. Be encouraged. You are not alone. Just call out to God. He will never leave you nor forsake you. Best wishes to you and the little one within you. I am so proud of you for keeping the baby. Little gift from God.
Hi young lady. It is not the end of the world. You are not the first or the last person to fall pregnant this young. It must be very scary and I am glad that you have opted to keep the baby. Just hang in there. Soon, the dust will settle and time will pass. You will thank yourself one day when your child grows to not only liberate you, but the world. You are both (and the blessing within you) going to be just fine :) #hug
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