We aren't sure what we should do with the baby, I am 3 months preggo, and we really love eachother, what is this going to be like, how much does labor and giving birth hurt, will I be able to do this...
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Ok. well first of all your really young and so is your boyfriend. But its going to be really tough if you keep the baby. But i think keeping the baby is better/easier on the child beacuse the child knows who you are and doesnt have to deal with knowing who its real parents are and knowing who its staying with. Im 13 myself and honestly if i were in your place i'd keep the child. But of course its difficult and you loose a lot of free time. Yes giving birth can hurt... if its natrual. But you wont feel a thing with the epidural and all you have to do is push. The docters will ask you when your ready for the epidural, But untill you get that, you will have contractions and those will hurt. The doctors will explain everything. Just make regular appointments.
I don't think you should get an abortion. Yes, child birth is very painful but millions of women have gotten through it and I think you can too. I know it's a lot to ask, but you might want to ask your aunt for help raising the baby. At least so she could look after him or her when you're at school. If not, you should consider giving the baby up for adoption.
Congrats! Whats the name? Boy or Girl?
I have to say that it was a bad decision at 13. but whats happened is happened.
Also....you have to prepare yourself mentally and physically. People are going to make fun of you and a ton of other stuff. Tell your bestfriends. They NEED to support you. You can't get through this all alone.
Do your parents know?
Also tell the Guidance Counselor at your school. He/she will help you.
I know you can't be in gym like a week I think before the baby comes. So arrange that and a ton of other stuff.
Just tell your family and please keep the baby because it deserves a chance to live. The baby may be a future President or celebrity or just a regular person, but it does deserve the chance to live. I praise you for wanting to keep the baby, because others at your age would wan't to abort. But I must also say that it is kind of sad to see you so young, carrying the burden of childbirth when you are not a young woman yet. :(
Hope everything goes well.
She could home school for a year
yes you can ! it is a very simple and easy things all what you need before delivery day is regular sex with your man to enable your virginal wide so the baby will come out easily and also you need to be eating fruit at least let fruit be 80% of what you will be eat during this pregnancy period and even some month after delivery. Consult a medical expertise as expecated and keep to his stipulated rules regarding exercise and drugs. i belief with prayer and these strategy you will deliver safety. love you for further aids
I'm sorry superman13 if u get mad at me for this, but why'd you call your son, "it". I'm sorry but that kind of disappointed me.