Husband dreamed his wife had male body part and said it didn't bother him?

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Hi there -

my husband told me he dreamed I had a "schmeckle" (so to speak) and that he "didn't mind it."

It worries me and it upset me when he told me for obvious reasons, but he doesn't think it meant anything. I guess what bothers me most is the part where he said "I didn't mind it." Which to me sounded like a confession. However he denies being gay. I just don't know how to interpret this. We have a couple of children together as well which makes this all the more complicated now as well...

Men, if you had this sort of dream would you openly tell your woman this? And if so what would be your reason?

Women, how would you react and what would you do?

Any advice?

Thanks....

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Why would you ask women their advice on what to think, you have already decided your husband is a closeted homosexual, haven't you?

I am a man, I have been married for 26 years and have four wonderful children, and do you know what, when I have a dream I read into it exactly what it deserves, nothing.

It is only a dream, your mind is filing a lot of nonsense in no particular order, when I have a nightmare I don't say in the morning "Well today I am off to buy a Tiger alarm for the bathroom!", just because I had a dream that involved these two things.
Your husband sounds secure in his sexuality and masculinity, so relax, why are you fretting about it? Have you always wondered if he was secretly gay? If no, then why so much onus on a single dream where he wasn't freaked out?

Your reaction sounds way, way over the top, what would you rather he do, vomit and swear and call anything you are uncomfortable with a terrible thing for the sake of your mindset?
He is relaxed because like almost all men he sees it just as a dream, something apart from reality, silly, pointless and without meaning.
Just relax.

Husband dreamed his wife had male body part and said it didn't bother him?

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