Ok, so I've had a few dry humping sessions with my boyfriend, and I'm finding it increasingly difficult to really pleasure him. Sure, he enjoys it, but I can't even get him to moan. Being the sexually disiplied guy that he is, he's not easily turned on and and stuff. Plus we are both virgins. It's kinda upsetting, cause I'm the only one moaning, yet he's only moaned once. I feel like I'm the only one getting pleasure out of our sessions. Any suggestions or tips? And no, we don't want to go all the way at this stage.
How to turn him on?
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- 3+ months ago by HaiThere
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- sex, boyfriend, enjoy, pleasure, turn, relationships, sexual health
Responses (3)
Sounds like he's hard to please, most men given good quality head as I'm damn sure you gave him would be moaning for more.
Yeah, I've tried playing with his peins, but i end up tickling him when I touch the head :/
Has he ask to eat u out ?
He's not comfortable with it at this stage
Also - I managed to make him moan for a bit last night :o
But how will I be able to maintain it, so it's not like a rare thing, in a sense?
Not comfortable really, have u told him u like being eaten.
When he did sorta to that (we were clothed), I told him how I liked it, and he apologised to me about the fact that he's not comfortable with doing it
How did that make u feel as a woman, him not being able to close the deal orally.
I felt a bit let down, because I was in two layers of clothing, whereas when I gave him a blow job, he had one layer on. He only did it for a few moments - alot shorter than when I gave him oral. It's also a new, and very pleasant sensation... But then I understood why he feels this way - we are both exploring things we've never done before, and we're not ready to cross centain lines at this stage.
I believe in taking one's time, but he's leaving you sexually denied. You've given him hand jobs & quality head. Surly he can return the feeling by taking his time & eating ur pussy well. Don't u think so.
I believe in taking one's time, but he's leaving you sexually denied. You've given him hand jobs & quality head. Surly he can return the feeling by taking his time & eating ur pussy well. Don't u think so.
I guess so
U guess so ?
Now that I think about it, and what happened today, I feel sexually denied
I understand that he wants to slow it down before stuff happens and we end up in a pit hole, but at the same time, I don't think he's being fair to me, sexually that is.
I totally agree, what happen today.
I totally agree, what happen today.
We were in a classroom that was left unlocked, and after a while we started passionately making out. I wanted to play a little game where I pretended to get away from him while he dominates me, but he complained and said that it's too late for games, we should of come earlier. But at one point when I was on top of him, he stopped kissing me and said that he didn't want to risk stuff happening, because he realized he was in a hornier mood than usual, and that the chances of him cumming was higher, he didn't want to come in the wrong place (inside of me). He then said that we should making out altogether that night, so I was quite upset. He told me that the choice is mine, whether to continue and take the risk, or to stop and we both go home. At first, I was going for the 1st option, but then he said that there will be other opportunities, and he's embarrassed about cumming in the classroom - as in evidence of it being left behind on a table, for example. In other words, he want me to make the decision (like most of the time), but push me to one option. So we were getting ready to go, and he's like to me, "Oh please don't give me that look, you're making me feel bad". Finally he gave in and as he undid his belt, he told me "five minutes." (it was past 8pm and we should of left to go home already, our mothers were ringing up our phones, lol.) So I gave him a hand job, trying to make him come, rubbing the head and pumping the shaft. He gave me a love-bite on my neck, whilst teasing my nipples. After a short while, he looked at his watch and told me to stop, due to how late it was getting. Outside, he told me that I should've been happy that he let me play with the head, cause he finds it ticklish. He then went on to say that He's never giving me a love bite again - because he didn't even think about it, and it hurt me a little - I even pleaded him not to make that choice but his mind's set.
Last night over facebook, I told him about how I felt sexually, and he decided that the next time we 'play' again, to let me be in-charge, in respect to when to stop.
Meh, apologies in regards of the length of that paragraph :/
You don't have to apologize for length of your comment
I really hope things work out for the next time when u r in charge, it's time for u to experience Cumming satisfaction.
We spoke again today, he said that he's not gonna start anything anymore, that I should make the first move. I was like "I do that anyway", then he explained that if he helped to start anything, he'll make the desision to stop when I don't want to, and he doesn't want to sexually deny me. I am hoping to make him cum some time
And thank you :)
That's all n good, but it's a two way street. He should be just as concern about you Cumming as you r about him cumming. It's only fair do u agree.
Yeah
Plus it turns out that he's not as sexually adventurous as me, if that makes any sense.
On a scale of 1 to 10 how high is your sex drive. 1 being the lowest & 10 being the highest, also your bf score.
I think I'm about a 7-8, my boyfriend a 5
Seems as tho u have a healthty sex drive, your bf not so much. question do he ever beg you for some ?
Hmmm not really... He teases me quite a bit though
Maybe so but teaseing dosen't make you cum, that is what you want to do on a semi regular basis right.
Yeah I would enjoy that alot
:O
Umm he doesn't drink beer... Nor do I
And he's scared of dogs...
No, not yet.
I have recently given him a hj whilst kissing him and him working my breasts, he moaned a little... How to keep it from being like a one off thing? And no, neither of us are comfortable with oral whilst clothed, let alone naked.
I sorta did that the other night, and he faked moaning :(
I was happy and I said "I made you moan" and he killed it by saying that he faked it