I have a friend but I don't think they like me anymore, but don't want to tell me because they don't want to hurt my feelings. Is there any signs that would help me find out? Or anyway I could tell?
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I’ve watched a few videos about if people like you, like crushes for instance. This can also relate to people in general and if they like you as a friend or whatever.
If the person’s feet are pointed towards you, that’s a sign of the person caring about what you have to say and they want to stick around you. Also, if you notice the person’s pupils are larger when you’re looking directly at or talking to the person, that means they like you as you, and are interested (again) in what you have to say.
Or if the person’s avoiding you or always looking away whenever you look at them, those signs might possibly mean your friend might not want to be around you.
These are a few facts which you probably knew, but if these don’t help any I would talk to your friend in person and honestly ask if you did anything to make the person upset.
I’ve never had this situation happen to me, but in order to maintain relationships you have to communicate, and if I feel like I’ve offended someone, I’ll genuinely ask for the person’s forgiveness.
I hope this helps you, and don’t feel down on yourself. You’re special and a one of a kind human being! :)
How about just being honest and instead of playing guessing games or trying to read body language that you are not trained to do you just have lunch out in a neutral place and chat and stay calm and relaxed.
Bring up the topic that you realize people and relationships can grow apart which happens and is nobody's fault and you were wondering if that was happening in your relationship. People's interests and goals change and perhaps that should be examined. You can mutually break up a relationship without any animosity and still speak to each other just not hang out all the time.
Try doing it the mature way.