We met one another on the internet. I just broke up with my ex few months before that time then meeting him was one of the best things ve ever happened to me. We started dating as an online couple after 2 weeks and its been 6 months so far. Its still running well between us there is only one thing is that we both know we are not able to be together in the future. I'm Vietnamese and he is Nepali. No one of us can leave family to move to each other's place to live. Although we also make a plan to meet each other in the future, I always think about what we are gonna do next when that time ends. I love him so much. I m not a day dreamer but I m not a person who can open the heart easily. So please kindly tell me what should I do now? It's really killing me every single day.
How to survive in the hopeless long distance relationship!?
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- 3+ months ago by Koiness
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- meeting, distance, broke, relationship, month, internet, long distance, time, relationships
Answers (1)
You should consider if this type of relationship (a long distance one) is suitable to your life-style. Could you continue a long distance relationship for a year? Two years? Five years? If not, then you might want to consider what you want out of the relationship. Are you okay with it being temporary; you know, enjoy it while it lasts? Or are you looking for permanency? If a more permanent resolution, then it's about finding ways to make it work. Making a set number of visits per year or per month, setting time aside to talk, either by video chat, phone, email, or postal services. Later, when you feel it's right, open up a discussion about having two homes or living somewhere half-way or some other viable solution.
It's not going to be easy, but it's not impossible. Good luck.