Ok so there was this new girl that came to my school and she was really cute (both 8th grade). So I decided that I wanted to try to talk to her. Here comes the downward spiral. The first day I said nothing. I didn't really have good chance to talk to her so I didn't. Then I could have but I chickend out of talking to her, I'm really shy. Then I did something really stupid. I dmed her on Instagram asking about her first day. Not so bad. Then I asked if she knew her schedule. I think she lied and said no but not 100% sure. That's not that bad. Then my friends convinced me that, without talking to her at all, asking for her number was a good idea. So I thought about it and after deleting it twice, the dm, I asked for her number. Like I would expect, she said "sorry, I don't know you". Now I'm starting to feel really bad because I really wanted to get to know her at least. I feel rejected already even though I know I'm not. How can I recover and make it better and, well, get her number. Thanks in advance.
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Like she says, she doesn't know you. So get to know her. Talk to her at school n be her friend but make her like you. Flirt with her without being thirsty.. Like say one day that she looks nice.. I'm pretty sure you have mutual friends.. Start tryin to be around her.. Just don't be too pushy because no girl likes that.
Tell her that it came across wrong and that you would rather gradually make a relashionship as friends and if you feel the time is right don't be afraid to pop the question. Don't worry I'm in 8th grade to and this has happened before to me and to others so don't feel bad if she says no you can still work up your relashionship as friends